Back together with ex gf – is it possible?
Picture yourself a few months from now – in a solid relationship with the woman you love. Sharing your lives like you were meant to. Planning for a future together while you enjoy every day in a close relationship few people ever get the chance to experience.
Sound too good to be true? Well, maybe from where you are at the moment – Yes. However, this could easily become your reality if you stop and take some steps to fix the damage that has been done and make the right moves from here on out.
Sure, it hurts to get dumped, but people do survive and some even end up in a stronger relationship with that person as a result. Though it may feel like the end of the world as you know it, you will get through this. And if you make the right moves, you will have a very good chance at getting your soul-mate back.
But first, there is a little preliminary housework to take care of.
If you are acting in way that tarnishes your image at the moment, you need to do an about-face right this second. Examples are: contacting her every 5 minutes through text, email or phone. Buying her gifts. Apologizing for everything that has happened – even if it wasn’t your fault. Begging and pleading for another chance. I know – you’re feeling emotional, but this is not going to help you.
If you cannot get a handle on those emotions and stop the damage you are causing, try to get some help. Sometimes, just talking to a friend about how you are feeling is enough to give you the strength to carry on. If need be, get away somewhere for a week and don’t take your cellphone with you.
Did you know that the only real way you are going to get her back is if you create attraction again? It’s true. Yeah, she may feel sorry for you, but if you can’t create real attraction, you are not going to make any progress – no matter how nice a guy you are.
Attraction is not a choice and you are not going to force her to feel a certain way. Either she feels it, or she doesn’t.
Breaking off contact is going to get you started on the road to creating that attraction. What you are doing at the moment is creating scarcity. If you are not making yourself available all the time, you are upping your perceived value in her eyes. Yes, it may sound like a little tough love, but you don’t have much choice.
Give it a try and see for yourself how your situation improves.
Getting back together with an ex gf is definitely possible – in fact, take the right steps and it is almost certain. If you can do this one thing (make yourself scarce), you are going to be light-years ahead of most other guys. But is that all you need to do? Well, it is a great beginning, but there is more to it than that. In fact, you’re just getting started. Listen to the recording HERE and read the entire page. You could change your life, starting today.