“How to make my ex boyfriend come crawling back”. No doubt, this has been weighing heavy on your thoughts for the last little while. He dumped you and moved on and you were devastated. However, it’s been a while now, and you’ve finally got your head on straight – you realize why the relationship failed and why he left you. Now you’re ready to get back in there.
You really need to ensure that you’re ready though, because if you are still in that “desperate” phase, then forget it, this isn’t going to work. On the other hand, if you’ve been able to get real with yourself and realize what happened, then you are ready. So here we go.
First and foremost: you have to start seeing other people – openly and publicly. Now, your ex may be the love of your life, and I’m not saying you have to sleep around, but you do have to start dating. This is for two reasons. One, is to show your ex that you have moved on and left him behind. Two, is for your own well being and confidence. The more you are able to go out and have fun, the more attractive you will be to your ex (and others if it’s just not meant to be with your ex).
Next, you really have to change your appearance – one way or another. New wardrobe, new haircut, maybe dye your hair a new color – something fun, something for you, something different that you’ve always wanted to do (especially if your ex didn’t want you to – but that’s not the main reason, it has to be for you).
It is a weird human trait, but it’s true. We all want what we can’t have and we value that which is scarce and unattainable. Guess what? You need to work on making yourself scarce.
How do you make your ex boyfriend come crawling back? It’s all about upping your perceived value, as blunt as that sounds. It may even be about moving away from him and on to something better (at least for now). As he sees you having fun and out with others in a carefree manner, it will draw him back in, almost guaranteed. But after all that, will you still want him back?