It’s a fact that most people don’t handle breakups very well. This is especially true if you’ve been dumped by your ex. But why is this?
Well, one of the biggest reasons you’re going to have very little success in trying to get your ex back is because you lack patience. Without patience, things are very unlikely to go your way. In fact, there’s a very good chance that you’re going to start making the situation a lot worse than it has to be.
If you’re short on patience and you’re in a highly emotional state at the moment, this is a recipe for disaster. Because the only thing your mind is getting your ex back, you’re going to start acting in a way that shows how desperate you are. Furthermore, you may actually get to the point where you start harassing your ex. Don’t forget that some actions can have a very long-lasting effect on any chance you have of getting your relationship back in the future.
While being short on patience may be a minor human trait, it is certainly something you have to consider at the moment. While it’s unlikely that you’re going to change your personality overnight, there are certain things that you can do that will minimize the effect this is going to have on your long-term success.
Take stock of who you are and what your shortfalls are. Very few of us are firing on all cylinders and we all have our weaknesses. If you know you’re an impatient person, then you simply have to think of ways to minimize the temptation to contact your ex. If you know that any contact is going to end horribly, the logical thing to do is to try to minimize this.
Take a few days to get over the worst of your emotions, but do not contact your ex under any circumstances. One of the best ways to do this is to get some help from a trusted friend or family member. Remember that most of us have been through this and we can relate to what you’re going through. A good friend is going to be sympathetic and supportive and show you that it’s really not the end of the world. They are also going to help you resist making a fool of yourself by harassing your ex.
For the moment, if all you do is throw away your cell phone temporarily and avoid contacting him/her for a few weeks, you’re going to be farther ahead than 90% of people. The fact that you haven’t given into your emotions and you took a more mature stance speaks volumes about who you are as a person. Your ex is going to notice this, and that can’t be a bad thing. You’re showing them that there is more to you than they gave you credit for and you are handling this in a very dignified manner.
That, in itself, may be enough to pique their curiosity and maybe even create attraction once more. Human beings are naturally attracted to confidence and maturity.
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