Getting dumped is incredibly hard to deal with – it can take it’s toll on the best of us. That’s why there’s a good chance that the only thing on your mind at the moment is getting back with your ex – or at least hoping that he/she still has feelings for you. It’s perfectly normal.
If you’re going through a rough patch right now, you may certainly be wondering, “what are the signs my ex wants me back?” After all, it’s unlikely that they’ve completely forgotten about you. You shared your lives together, and even though things aren’t great at the moment, there’s almost no chance that they don’t still have feelings for you. Trouble is, it may be tough to read between the lines.
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Your ex is going to be playing their cards close to their chest, so to speak. Because they initiated the breakup, it won’t take much to make them look indecisive and insincere if they suddenly do an about-face and take you back. They are between a rock and a hard place and the last thing they want to do is lose face.
But as mentioned, if you look closely enough and you’re able to read between the lines, you may find that your ex is giving you many subtle hints that they don’t consider the relationship completely over – and that you have a chance if you want to take it. Of course, this means reading them properly and acting accordingly. The last thing you want to do is misread the signals and start acting inappropriately. You have to be relatively sure before you can make any decision to pursue them.
What are the signs my ex wants me back?
Here are some of the most common:
You notice that they’re turning up at the same time you are. In other words, if you’re somewhere in public, it just seems too coincidental that they suddenly show up. Of course, there’s always the chance that it’s completely innocent and accidental, but you shouldn’t overlook the obvious if it’s staring you right in the face.
You hear rumors through the grapevine that they’ve been asking questions about you. In other words, they are still interested in what you are up to. If they really didn’t care, they certainly wouldn’t bother asking.
If you are at the same function together, you may notice that your ex will steal the occasional glance at you. If you catch them, they will look away quickly and probably appear a little embarrassed. This is a very strong indicator that they are still interested. The problem you may have is that they may be very discreet about it.
When you meet up with your ex in public, they greet you with a warm smile and genuine happiness. You should be able to pick up on this fairly easily. You may notice that they light up when you are talking to them. Anyone who doesn’t want to see their ex again is not going to be thrilled if they bump into them in public. In fact, they may go out of their way to avoid any contact at all.
They maintain close ties with your friends and family members. If you truly don’t want to see someone, it’s the easiest thing in the world to make that happen – and one thing you definitely don’t do is maintain contact with your ex’s family. Though they may tell you that they’re still friends with everyone, usually a person will break off all ties unless, deep down, they really don’t want to let go.
What it all comes down to is that you can’t always trust what you see on the surface. Sometimes you have to dig a little deeper to really understand how a person feels. In fact, your ex may not even be aware that they still harbor feelings for you.
Needless to say, it’s not going to be easy to navigate these waters. If you make the assumption that your former partner is trying to flirt with you, you’d better be right. Trying to reciprocate feelings that just aren’t there is a recipe for disaster and could prove to be just a little embarrassing.
If your ex is showing signs that they want you back – that is a good thing. Unfortunately, some of us are, for lack of a better word, “lost” after the breakup – and despite the fact that our ex is showing signs that it may not be over, we are unable to make the right moves and end up making things worse.
It’s a fact that the vast majority of people are unable to put together a plan that will ensure that they create enough attraction to start the ball rolling.
What mistakes are they making?
Simply relying on instinct, going forward without a plan, and hoping that somehow things will come together. Is is any wonder the majority of folks break up for good?
If you really want to put together a plan to get them back, you can start by reading this page and listening to the video – it could change your life.